desert
To desert someone or something is to leave a post or bond you were duty-bound to keep — and the doing of it is a betrayal. It comes from Latin deserere, 'to un-join' (de- plus serere, 'to link'), so the word breaks a tie that was holding. Soldiers desert their posts, a parent deserts a family, supporters desert a failing cause. Where to abandon can be neutral and to forsake is sorrowful, desert carries blame: there was a duty with a claim on you, and you slipped out from under it.
- iThe soldiers who deserted their posts were hunted down and court-martialed.
- iiHe deserted his family one winter and was never heard from again.
- iiiAs the company faltered, even its most loyal customers began to desert it.
- desert a post
- desert one's family
- desert a sinking ship
- desert the cause
Family deserter (noun) · desertion (noun)
| Pair | The difference |
|---|---|
| desert vs abandon | simply leave something behind → abandon; break a duty you were sworn to keep → desert (a betrayal). |
| desert vs forsake | a sworn duty broken → desert; a cherished bond renounced → forsake. |
| desert vs give up | let down something you owed loyalty to → desert; simply stop trying → give up. |
| desert vs keep | break away from a bond you were bound to → desert; hold to it → keep. |
| desert vs leave behind | a duty treacherously broken → desert; something that just doesn't come along → leave behind. |
Also compared with pursue, relinquish
Always carries blame — a duty or loyalty broken (military desertion, deserting a family or cause). Noun forms: deserter, desertion. Watch the homographs: the verb desert (/dɪˈzɜːrt/, to leave) versus the noun desert (/ˈdezərt/, dry land) and dessert (/dɪˈzɜːrt/, the sweet course). Contrast desert (a duty owed) with abandon (broad) and forsake (cherished, literary).